And this can be a good thing. Being in control is not the same as being controlling. Being in control of your living space can be a wonderful thing! Being in control of your desk at work and your files in the cabinets can be a productive thing! Being organized can be an amazing thing!
Being organized doesn’t mean you have to be or strive to be perfect! there is NO such thing as perfection. Being organized allows you to handle the things that you are NOT in control of. You will have systems in place to handle unexpected situations. Sometimes being organized means having “backup” plans in place. So even when things go out of control, you are still in control!