Why can’t I keep a boyfriend? That is not a great question. What am I doing negatively that affects my relationships with men? A better question. Who am I calling into my life? Maybe an even better question.
I learned a very valuable lesson while in school for Life Coaching. Drop the ‘why’s ’ that push you into defense mode and ask more ‘hows’, ‘who’s’ and ‘what’s’.Starting a question with Why rarely goes well. How can I improve? What can I learn from this? Who can help me?